Following a Spark from Childhood to a Career

by Jill Hubbard Bowman on June 22, 2010

galaxyThere is a common theme among many of the inspiring career women I’ve interviewed for Lookilulu.com:

They followed a spark from their childhood to find a rewarding and fulfilling  career.

For example:

Angela Adams loved doodling designs as a child.  Now she’s a famous rug and housewares designer.

Carmen Baez loved commercials as a little girl.  Now she’s President of Diversified Agency Services for Latin America, part of the world’s largest advertising network.

Clare Crespo has always loved playing with her food.  Now she does it for a living.  Clare runs the YummyFun Kooking empire and creates kids cooking videos.

Dayna Steele wanted to be a rock star as a child.  Now she has a best selling business book explaining what she learned as a rock radio DJ about success from the worlds’ greatest rock stars.

Lorie Marrero stayed in from school recess to help children organize their desks.  Now she runs the Clutter Diet network that helps people get organized.

Alison Vercruysse loved to cook with her mother.  She abandoned banking to start a baking company called 18 Rabbits, after her childhood pet rabbits.

All of these women, and many more who are profiled on lookilulu.com, identified  objects and activities that they loved as children.

By following their early passions and interests, they were able to find and create rewarding careers that made them happy.

If you are trying to find a great career path, you might just ask:  What did I love when I was a child?

Your answer might give your valuable insight about the type of career or business that your core self would love.



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Utah. Shaded relief map.

Recently I read UWEP’s Research and Policy Brief, Women and Higher Education in Utah:  A Glimpse at the Past and Present. (UWEP stands for The Utah Women & Education Project.)

I think the title of the research program — UWEP— is fitting.  I feel like weeping about the fact that Utah has the lowest percentage of women enrolled in postsecondary institutions in the country.

Utah is dead last in higher education for girls.

I was raised in Utah but left over 20 years ago.  In my exile, my hope for girls in Utah was that the culture had gotten better:  more encouragement to have dreams in addition to motherhood; more opportunity for self discovery and expression; and more encouragement to go to college and graduate school.

Last fall, my sister Julie and I talked to guidance counselors at some Utah colleges and high schools and we were dismayed by what we heard — that attitudes haven’t changed much in the last twenty years.  Many girls are still not attending college or seeing career possibilities beyond traditional pink–collar tracks like school teaching, nursing, and cosmetology.

The UWEP analysis supports what we feared.  Education for women in Utah significantly lags the rest of the country.  For African American women, the college enrollment statistics are worse than the national average by almost 23%.  Stunning.

And according to UWEP, when women in Utah attend college they still major in traditionally gender appropriate majors that lead to the lowest paying jobs.  Women still tend to major in education and health rather than business management, science and math.

In a related trend, women in Utah have much higher numbers than the national average for women getting certificates in cosmetology and culinary arts.

Even when young women pursue higher education in Utah, they are still primarily learning about teaching children, caring for sick people, enhancing beauty and cooking.

Many young women in Utah still can’t see what they can do beyond what is defined by a very old, traditional female standard where women are beautiful caretakers and homemakers.

Over twenty years ago when I lived in Provo Utah and attended BYU, I lived with more than a dozen women roommates.  Most of the women were majoring in elementary education.  A few majored in home economics.  Two were attending beauty school.  I was unique because I majored in science.

None of us intended to work.

None of us expected to be financially responsible.

Even in the 1980s, we all believed what Betty Freidan in 1962 called the “Feminine Mystique” — a traditional gender ideology where the man would be the bread winner in the sphere of the world and the woman would be a mother in the sphere of the home.  Any other scenario went against a woman’s natural destiny and God’s eternal plan.  (Read about the same God ordained destiny of women argument articulated by the United States Supreme Court for denying women the right to be lawyers in my post Women Should Be Limited To the Domestic Sphere.)

The women’s liberation movement of the 1970s bypassed Utah.  Indeed, Utah women rallied against the Equal Rights Amendment and helped stop its passage.  When I lived in Utah, most Utah women wholeheartedly supported patriarchy—the rule of the fathers— and sex discrimination — the subordination of women to men.

Women in Utah seem to be burying their heads in the sand and ignoring reality.  The Utah Department of Labor says that women in Utah work an average of 30 years outside of the home — despite their intentions.

Some women seem to be clinging to a very outdated standard rather than envisioning possibilities and identities that go beyond motherhood, traditional roles, and simplistic dualities.

Although Utah women fought against sex equality, they have benefited from women’s campaign for equal pay, sexual harassment and sex discrimination laws   Things have gotten somewhat better for women in terms of work and school conditions but Utah women are still far behind other women in the nation in gaining access to the benefits of higher education for themselves and their families.

Young women in Utah still don’t seem to understand that if they got more education and training they could actually work fewer hours and spend more time with their children than the Utah Labor Department’s statistics show they do now.

In the next few weeks, I’ll be writing about the history of women and education and the reasons that I think contribute to the stagnation of women’s higher education in Utah and the lack of women’s empowerment worldwide.  It’s a complex but fascinating subject that has dramatic implications for the lives of women and children.

To read the UWEP Research Policy briefs go to http://uvu.edu/wep/

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ACTiVATE: Help for Women Entrepreneurs

by Jill Hubbard Bowman May 2, 2010

I recently went to a conference, Equity Matters:  The Route to NASDAQ, sponsored by  organizations that help women entrepreneurs, including Activate, Springboard and Path Forward.
The conference was filled with amazing women who have started technology companies and thrived.  These women are now giving back to a new group of women entrepreneurs.
I was excited to find [...]

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Women Should Be Limited to the Domestic Sphere

by Jill Hubbard Bowman April 15, 2010

At least, that was the opinion of several Supreme Court Justices when Myra Bradwell sought the equal protection of the 14th Amendment and the right to become a lawyer in Illinois in 1872. (Bradwell v. State of Illinois, 83 U.S. 130 (1872)).
This is one of my favorite Supreme Court opinions — not only because I [...]

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Your Body Compass: The Best Career Decision Making Tool

by Jill Hubbard Bowman April 7, 2010

Making decisions about what college to attend, what major to pick, what career to pursue, and what job to take can be hard and scary.  These types of decisions are pivitol and can radically alter the trajectory of your life.
But making important career and life decisions doesn’t have to be daunting or overwhelming.
You already have [...]

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Jill’s Story

by Jill Hubbard Bowman March 8, 2010

Thwarted.
That’s the word that best describes how I felt growing up as a girl on a farm in rural Utah.
My feelings of frustration began when I was about eight — an age when I didn’t have the knowledge to understand what I was experiencing or the vocabulary to describe it.  I just put my experiences [...]

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Julie’s Story

by Julie Simmons February 23, 2010

I was a child bride.
I got married at 19—only two years out of high school.  When I got engaged, I’d attended one year of college at Utah State University.  After my engagement, I dropped out of college.  I didn’t see the importance of college and I hadn’t decided on a major.
My sister, Jill, was horrified.
After [...]

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The Foundation of the Lookilulu Website

by Jill Hubbard Bowman January 7, 2010

There are many wonderful people who have helped create the reality of the Lookilulu website.  It started with the vision that my sister Julie Simmons and I had  to help girls see what was possible to do in the world.  We grew up on a farm in a small town in Utah, literally in the [...]

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